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Peace, one and all…

A teacher stands in debt to those he teaches, for the great honour they have done him in opening themselves.  And, as in all things, the honour of teaching is in fact a deep and sacred trust.  An honest student places their suddenly vulnerable selves into the teacher’s hands.  What greater sacrifice could there be?

This is why a teacher must first be a student themselves.  How can you hope for the gift of another’s heart unless you have first struggled to surrender your own?

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

Dancing Shadow

Peace, one and all…

Dancing Shadow

These poems are naught
but a dancing shadow of words.
So, if one dance displeases you,
do not be troubled overmuch.

Love’s rhythm is always moving,
for all symphonies fall into silence
when they cease to move,
and so it has always been.

This world is naught
but the interplay of light and shade,
so be not burdened by thoughts of form,
for beyond all form walks love unbounded.

Abdur Rahman, 20th April 2008

Peace, one and all…

It’s been a couple of weeks since I went to the Christian Muslim Forum conference in Leeds, and I’m now starting to work through the many interesting materials that I picked up whilst I was there.  As such, I wanted to start sharing that information with the wider world.

So, to get the ball rolling, whilst I was in Leeds I had the good fortune to listen to a fascinating talk by Rehanah Sadiq of The Reflection Network.  This organisation runs cultural awareness training courses on Islam and Muslims.  I really enjoyed sister Rehanah’s talk and, insha Allah, will offer a synopsis here in the future.  For now, here’s a link to their current brochure (pdf document).

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

Peace, one and all…

Your Own Hour of Need

Love resides in the heart of each human being,
so beware of your words,
lest you spurn love
as she passes by.

Love is the hand
that moves all things,
so do not break the sacred threads
that have been given into your care.

Break no hearts!
Lest love turn you away
from her door
in your own hour of need.

Abdur Rahman, 8th May 2008

 

Peace, one and all…

The Grandeur of Distant Hills

The grandeur of distant hills
fills me with quiet joy
as I travel into
the waking heart of morning.

They invite my eyes
and gladden my soul.
Beloved, the hills’ wide breadth
is a certain cure for every vision of narrowness.

The miracle of sun, rain and clean air
falling upon this green fertile earth,
these things are right and true
and I am grateful to have partaken of them.

Abdur Rahman, 20th April 2008

Peace, one and all…

In a recent post, I shared some material from the Islamic tradition on the ethical dimensions of conversation/dialogue.  The post also contains links to a number of other posts in the same vein.  As I said there, I wanted to offer a few thoughts on some of this material, and so with God’s help, here goes…

Islam has a very demanding sense of ethical conversation.  It bids Muslims to follow a very rigorous standard when talking and interacting with others.  There are a great number of Quranic passages and Prophetic traditions (hadith) in this regard.  I have collected some of these passages elsewhere:

I have been thinking recently about the purpose behind such ideals.  Why are they there?  What purposes do they serve?  As I also suggested in a related post, these ideas can all be subsumed under the term adab (for more information see here, and here)  .

Adab forces us to think about the rights and needs of the other in a rigourous and structured manner.  That is, true adab forces us to go beyond superficialities, beyond a kind of default, diffuse respect.  Such things are good in themselves, no doubt, but they are merely a starting point.  Beyond lies an enhanced ability to build, foster and maintain relationships with others.  In other words, adab draws us into the realm of spiritual companionship/conversation (sohbet).  It raises the real prospect of true spiritual friendship.  Indeed, it is only through a rigourous understanding of the rights of others that such friendships can begin (see Aelred of Rievaulx for a beautiful description of such friendship).

When we begin to take on these qualities we begin to transform ourselves, we begin walking the path of spiritual chivalry (or futuwwa in Arabic).  In other words, we begin to consider others in each of our actions, in each of our thoughts and in each of our breaths.  We empty our selves of ourselves, that we might be filled with light, and that we might spread that light in all that we do.

Note: our worthy brother Saifuddin has written a very beautiful description of spiritual chivalry in the Islamic tradition.  Please do visit his excellent blog.

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

Peace, one and all…

The Past Has Gone

The past has gone
and the future has yet to arrive.
There is only this unfolding present,
this urgent now.

Beloved, veil what has passed
with the grey cloak
of Your tender mercy
and overflowing grace.

Beloved, let the future arrive as it will.
The only thing I ask,
O light of my soul,
is that I be always ready to reach for You.

Abdur Rahman, 23rd April 2008

Peace, one and all…

Thank You Note for the Bird

you don’t need a fairy
to carry you, bird.
you fly fine on your own.
and i don’t need an angel
to heal the hurt.
i just need your song.

(From the excellent While Kneeling Before the Rose blog)

 

Peace, one and all…

What assumptions do I bring to all my readings and interactions?  What hermenuetical strategies do I employ in the act of reading?  Through what ideological, theoretical and cultural membranes do I filter my reading of the primary sources of the Islamic tradition?  What kinds of interpretive frameworks am I using in my attempts to explore and understand the teachings of Islam?  Or, to put this question in its most basic terms: how do I read?

Questions such as these demand both rigour and honesty.  Rigour is necessary because laying bare my hidden assumptions is absolutely fundamental to growth of any kind.  Honesty is necessary if I am to open my inner workings to reflective scrutiny.

So, with these thoughts in mind, what are my personal assumptions?  How do I read?  I have been pondering this question for a while, and I have come to some basic conclusions.  I would like to offer them here.

1. Human Autonomy

My reading of any text starts from the basic assumption of individual human autonomy/free will.  My reading of specifically religious/spiritual texts only amplifies this basic assumption.  That is, any serious engaged reading has to start from the position that each human being is the centre of their own unique world, their own universe of meanings, ideas and associations.  Thus, each human being has the fundamental right/duty to determine their own realities and allegiances, to construct their own languages of meaning and profundity, and to own their own beliefs.

2. Encounter

If, as outlined briefly above, the world is populated by autonomous individuals, then any reading of a religious text must seek honest engagement with other readings.  That is, it must lead to an encounter with and experience of the other.  Moreover, religious texts must themselves be approached in this manner.  That is, the fundamental unity of purpose of a given religious text must be acknowledged and respected.  In other words, it too must be encountered as other.

3. Companionship & Conversation (Sohbet/Suhbah)

If autonomy breeds encounter, then encounter should lead to an open and honest dialogue, in the sense that it should generate a move towards communication.  This is why I find the metaphor of conversation to be so very profound.  Conversation implies the development of a relationship.  It also implies a real attempt to explore meanings beyond our own (sohbet).  It suggests a meeting of equals, on a platform of open enquiry.  Moreover, this necessitates an acute understanding of the ethics of dialogue.  That is, we are forced to consider the impact of our words/thoughts and also to consider the vantage points and values of others in a formal, concrete fashion.

4. Ethical Orientations (Adab)

This term, drawn from the Arabic lexicon of Islam, is pregnant with a wide range of meanings.  It conveys the sense of ettiquette, in the sense of formalised social practice.  It also denotes respect, consideration and more broadly, manners.  Furthermore, it is used to refer to someone with education, erudition and civility.  This accounts for its more extended meaning of literature.  I use it here to refer to a structured, informed committment to ethical dialogue, in a practical sense.

These four broad principles inform the ways I seek to interact, with texts in general, with religious texts in particular and with the wider world at large.  It is important to note, however, two key points.  Firstly, as with any human being, there is much that moves beneath the surface; there are always hidden motivations at work.  It is therefore important to acknowledge their existence, to accept them and to strive to understand their wider impact.  Secondly, these principles represent to isolate significant strands of my own thought/approach.  They are not meant to be taken as final summations, nor as sealed containers.

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

To My Children

Peace, one and all…

In her unique, passionate and beautiful manner, our worthy sister Aaminah Hernandez recently shared her advice to her son on navigating the perils of life (Regalos Por Mi Hijo).  I have often thought of writing something in this vein for my own children and Aaminah’s efforts have spurred me on to action!  (If I had a hat, I’d be tipping it now)!

To My Children

My beloved children, this world can be a strange place.  By turns it can be both terrifying and wondrous, and since it is a father’s duty to guide his children to all that is good and wholesome in life, here is my advice to you.  I do not order you to follow my every word, nor do I demand from you obedience in all things.  Rather, these are the words of my heart, carved there during my wanderings through life.  I offer them to you with all the love that I possess and with all the care that I can muster.  Take them in this spirit.  Reflect upon them to your hearts’ desire and may Allah guide you all to good fortune.

What then of advice, my blessed ones?  If words are the gift of the heart, then what treasures would I bid you seek beyond all things?  What gifts, then, do I hope to bestow upon you that you might grow to your true estates?

Hold fast to love.  Always strive to draw closer to her.  Let love open your eyes each morning and let love close them again each night.  Let love be the very best of you, that you might become all that God meant you to be.  Remember that love walks beyond all forms and so, be not surprised when love appears to you in guises strange and unusual.

Love can be seen in the eye and it can be felt in the hand’s gentle warmth, so always be ready for love’s blessed embrace.  Each person that you will meet in life was brought forth into this world from and through love.  Therefore, open your hearts and see truth as truth when it manifests itself before you.  If you can do this, my loved ones, your lives will be doubly blessed.  Not only will you see love manifest itself around you but it shall also manifest itself within you, and that is a treasure not to be spurned.

Dark times will come, just as surely as night follows day.  But, if you cleave to love, in all truth, you will come to know that which is false for the shrivelled and withered thing it really is.  You will see the false light of those who mean you harm and seeing this, you will be forewarned.  Nurture strength of spirit when you move amidst the dark and remember that God’s love is always with you - never more so than when you are in danger.

You will meet those who speak and live truth and you will meet those who do not.  Listen to your own intuition and to your own instincts, for they were given to you for a reason, and never feel ashamed of being who you are.  You have a right to be here and to do your own work, in your own way.  Those who question this fundamental right, however ‘noble’ they may seem, mean you harm and so should be avoided.  In all things, know this: your choices are your own, to make as you think best.  None has the right to divest you of this freedom.

But most of all, light of my eyes, take joy in life; take joy in the things that you do and take joy in love.  Be happy and remember that no matter what the future may hold, your mother and I will love you always, with a love that will neither change nor diminish.

And at the end of all things, I commend you to God, the Sustainer of All Being.

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

Peace, one and all…

During the recent Christian-Muslim Forum conference, I was introduced for the first time to the thought of Aelred_of_Rievaulx, a 12th century monk.  It seems that Aelred had much to say on the topic of spiritual friendship.  As his words struck a chord, I wanted to share them with the wider world:

‘The truest kind of friendship is what we call spiritual friendship.  We should desire it for its own intrinsic worth and for the way it reaches into the human heart, rather than for any external reason or because it might bring any worldly advantage.

The spiritual friendship that exists between people of integrity springs out of their common attitude to life, their shared moral outlook and the kind of activities they engage in - in other words, it consists of mutual agreement in matters human and divine, combined with goodwill and practical loving concern.’
(De Spiritu Amicitia)

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

Peace, one and all…

Your Bright Gift

Beloved, where You go I will follow
and where this narrow heart prevents me
I will await Your return
with tears of silent penance.

Beloved, wheresoever You wander
there too will I go,
my arms outstretched
that I might grasp the blessed hem of Your robe.

Beloved, this quiet yearning of mine
is Your bright gift of love,
and in that gift
I place my work, my hopes and my thoughts of return.

Abdur Rahman, 30th April 2008

Peace, one and all…

Thoughts of Power

We are not given power
that others might serve us.
Rather, we are given power
that we might serve others.

O Ibn al-Sabil,
strength is given as a mercy
that you might stand
for those who are oppressed.

Remember this truth:
power is but a fleeting thing
and as with all gifts,
you will questioned regarding its use.

Abdur Rahman, 21st April 2008

Peace, one and all…

Last year I ran a series of posts on the topic of Islam and the ethics of discussion:

I wanted to offer some further texts for that ongoing process, as I am currently writing something in this area.

The Prophet (alaihi al-salatu wa al-salam):

‘Veiling the faults of the faithful is akin to restoring the dead to life’
(al-Tabarani)

Imam Ali (karram Allahi wajha)

‘Your admonition (to the wrong-doer) in the presence of people is to humiliate him’
(Qurar al-Hikam, p. 322)

‘The worst form of betrayal is the disclosure of confidential information’
(Mustadrak al-Wasa’il al-Shi`ah)

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

Peace, one and all…

I have recently been interviewed by the good people over at The Pakistani Spectator.  This new venture covers all sorts of fascinating stuff relating to the people and culture of Pakistan and beyond.  Follow the link to see the interview itself.

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

Just Returned

Peace, one and all…

I’ve just returned from the excellent two day ‘Spiritual Guidance in Our Multi-faith Society’ Conference, run by the Christian-Muslim Forum.  There were some very interesting papers, discussions and projects on offer.  I also had the good fortune to meet with some very interesting people, from all sorts of backgrounds.

Once I have collected my thoughts, I will offer some of them here, insha Allah.  At any rate, some of the more interesting discussions centred around notions of Spiritual Friendship and what spirituality means within and beyond Islam and Christianity.

I also had the good fortune of visiting my Bosnian brother-in-law who works in Bradford.  We had a fine evening together on Sunday at a local Indian restaurant, and on Monday evening we went to a coffee shop in Leeds for a spot of mint tea!  So, if you stop by, Ibn Sifet, my thanks and salaams to you.

Please do visit the Forum’s website: see also Day One and Day Two for further inter-faith goodness!

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

On Remembrance

Peace, one and all…

‘He who truly remembers Allah is the one who obeys Him: whoever forgets is disobedient. Obedience is the mark of guidance, disobedience the sign of misguidance. The root of both states lies in remembrance (dhikr) and forgetfulness. Make your heart the focal point of your tongue, which should not move unless the heart indicates, the intellect agrees and your tongue accords with belief. Almighty Allah knows what you conceal and what you reveal.
 
Be like someone who has shed his soul from his body, or like someone who is attending the great parade on the Day of Reckoning, not distracting yourself from the obligations which your Lord has laid on you in His commands and prohibitions, His promise and His threat. Do not be occupied with yourself rather than with the duties laid down for you by your Lord. Wash your heart clean with the water of sorrow and fear; make remembrance of Allah part of His most glorious remembrance of you. He remembers you, but He does not need you. His remembrance of you is more glorious, more desirable, more praiseworthy, a more complete and more ancient than your remembrance of Him.
 
The knowledge you obtain by His remembrance of you will beget you humility, modesty and contrition, which will in turn be the cause of your witnessing His nobility and previous, overflowing favour. The latter will then belittle your obedience in your own eyes, however copious it may be as a result of His favours; and you will be sincerely devoted to Him. But your consciousness and esteem of your own remembrance of Him will lead to showing off, pride, foolishness and coarseness in your character, for it means attaching too much importance to your obedience while forgetting His overflowing favour and generosity. It will only make you more distant from Him, and all that you will acquire with the passing of the days is alienation.
 
There are two sorts of remembrance: sincere remembrance with which the heart is in harmony, and remembrance which arises through banishing any remembrance of other than Allah. As the Messenger of Allah said, ‘I cannot do justice in properly praising You as You praise Yourself.’ The Messenger of Allah did not set any limit on remembering Allah, since he knew the truth that Allah’s remembrance of His bondsman was greater than the bondsman’s remembrance of Him. Thus it is even more fitting that whoever comes after the Holy Prophet should not set any limits, and whoever wants to remember Allah should know that as long as Allah does not remember the bondsman by granting him success in remembering Him, that bondsman will not be able to remember Him’.
(Imam Ja`far al-Sadiq, Lanterns of the Path)

Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman

Peace, one and all…

The Table of the Heart

Cultivate the gentleness of a gardener,
who each day caresses what she has planted
with clean water
and open sunlight.

Do not be afraid
to uproot the weeds of your soul,
for a garden needs work
if it is to become a place of beauty.

Ibn al-Sabil, care is needed
in this planting and harvesting of life:
only the flower of honest work
can be set upon the Beloved’s table of the heart.

Abdur Rahman, 18th April 2008