A Sign Above My Door
Peace, one and all…
The sign above my door is a passage from the Quran, a saying of the Prophet (alaihi al-salatu wa al-salam) and a quotation drawn from Mevlana Rumi’s Masnavi (may God sanctify his soul):
‘My Lord, forgive me and my parents and whoever enters my house in faith…’
(Surah Nuh 71:28)
‘Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should be hospitable to his guest…’
‘The Sufi’s book is not of ink and letters; it is nothing but a heart white as snow’
(Mevlana Rumi, Masnavi II.159)
Welcome to Abdur Rahman’s Corner, my very own virtual home. Ahlan wa sahlan! I hope that you enjoy this blog, and that it is useful to you in some small way, insha Allah.
My virtual home, as with my actual home, is a welcoming and accepting place, insha Allah. I welcome all visitors to my cyber-home, regardless of background. Let me take this opportunity to offer greetings of peace. I’ll even go so far as to offer generous helpings of (virtual) tea and biscuits!
However, before you enter, please be aware of the rules of my home. There aren’t many, but such rules as exist are taken seriously.
Please note, that the views and opinions expressed by me on this website are entirely my own. I am deeply committed to the spiritual life and to my faith, which means my posts are (usually) the product of careful study and reflection. However, I’m only human. I make mistakes and get things wrong (only God is perfect). If an error is pointed out to me, I will apologise and attempt to put it right, insha Allah.
This is the online home of a believing, committed Muslim. I have no problems with differences of opinion (even sharp differences), but this is not a place for Islam-bashing. If you feel the need to engage in such things, the Internet has many free blogging platforms that can accommodate you.
The comments and ideas of others are the responsibility of their respective authors. Also, I am not responsible for the comment of other websites linked to here. My inclusion of such links does not indicate that I agree with all that they say, merely that I have found that site helpful and useful in some way.
Furthermore, please also note, that although I welcome comments from anyone who passes by, a word about appropriate conduct is in order.
Perhaps one of the only certainties in matters religious is that someone, somewhere is going to disagree with me. That’s fine. After all, I’m an adult (according to my passport at any rate) and I can handle differences of opinion easily enough. However, I will not tolerate abusive behaviour. In particular, this means that the use of foul, threatening or generally offensive language is utterly prohibited. It also means that I will not tolerate sexist or racist comments of any kind. I will any and all such posts without warning.
Ma’as salama,
Abdur Rahman
July 1, 2007 at 8:21 pm
love the site !! having just recently converted to islam i found all your articles very informative.
i am presently trying to locate a scholar in the north east to assist me with my conversion, however i also need someone who can teach me the sufi path and i am finding this extremely difficult, surely there must be a sufi in the north east !! if there is i cannot find him / her !!
once again congrats on the site, its wonderful
isha
July 2, 2007 at 10:29 am
Salaams Isha,
Thank you for the compliment. May Allah bless you, now and always. Let me welcome you to the community of Islam (or Ummah if you prefer). May Allah guide your steps.
If I might add a word of counsel. You may find (as I certainly did) that there are many different ways of ‘doing’ Islam. Also, it seems, that many are keen to offer you their own views and perspectives. I would say, just take your time and Allah will guide you to where you need to be, insha Allah.
I’m not from the north east, though I’ve visited Durham and Newcastle in my time. So, I can’t help you. Insha Allah, when I next go to Leicester I’ll make a few enquiries regarding scholars/sufis in that part of the world.
Welcome to my virtual home. Feel free to visit as often as you like. Also, feel free to ask me any questions you may have.
My best salaams to you and yours,
Abdur Rahman
August 7, 2007 at 3:08 am
Salaam!
Long time since I’ve posted a comment on your site. I was just out and I remembered it out of the blue. At that point, I figured there must have been a reason to remember, and so I found one
There is an exhibition currently touring London that I’d really recommend you and your readers to visit, if it is at all possible. It is called ‘Spirit & Life’, selected pieces from the permanent collection of the Aga Khan Museum. There are fabulous pieces on display, including the oldest known copy (1052 CE) of Ibn Sina’s Canon of Medicine … a text used for the study of medicine for 500 years after being authored! There are also other fascinating pieces, such as pages from the North African Blue Quran, Persian miniatures, and so on. The exhibit consists of pieces from number of different areas and traditions of the Muslim world, and this is an important message.
Here are some links for you to visit to help you consider visiting:
BBC’s Newsnight – 7 Jun 07 – video clip!
http://www.iis.ac.uk/SiteAssets/video/Newsnight.wmv
BBC Radio 4’s Today programme – 10 Jul 07 – audio clip!
http://www.iis.ac.uk/SiteAssets/video/today_nf_01.mp3
Times on-line – Waldemar Januszczak
http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/visual_arts/article2099511.ece
BBC – Stephanie Holmes
http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/2/hi/entertainment/6902755.stm
Financial Times – Robert Irwin
http://www.ft.com/cms/s/c5b7bb82-30e5-11dc-9a81-0000779fd2ac.html
Evening Standard – Nick Hackworth
http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/arts/artexhibition-20636527-details/Spirit%20&%20LIfe/artexhibitionReview.do?reviewId=23404635
Prince Charles on his web-site
http://www.princeofwales.gov.uk/speechesandarticles/a_speech_by_hrh_the_prince_of_wales_at_the_opening_of_the_ag_1254785784.html
And last but not least, the exhibits original press release and official web-site
http://www.akdn.org/museums/aktc_spirtandlife_pr.html
http://www.akdn.org/museums/index.html
August 7, 2007 at 11:05 am
Salaams A. Walli,
I am doubly blessed by the guest who returns to my door after a long absence! Ahlan wa sahlan.
Jazak Allah for the long list of sites. Insha Allah, I’ll look through them all. I’d be more than happy to visit the exhibition you refer to. There are few things I enjoy more than walking around museums and other such things.
Allah bless you always
Abdur Rahman
November 22, 2007 at 7:59 am
Greetings!
This comes from Brazil. It was a great surprise to find your page on the web. What a rich sourse to a great culture!
Hopefully, you can help me: I read that, whenever a Muslin is about to start a story, a mention to the name of Allah is made. Could you be kind enough to send me this sentence in English and in your own language? That would be very nice, indeed.
I bid you peace.
Ana Maria – São Paulo, Brazil
November 22, 2007 at 2:20 pm
Peace Ana Maria,
Welcome, welcome and thrice welcome!
The phrase you refer to is an Arabic phrase (written at the top of the blog itself), which reads Bismillah al-Rahman al-Rahim. In English (my native tongue), it means: ‘In the Name of God, the Compassionate, the Merciful’.
Feel free to stop by anytime.
May God’s peace be with you and those you love, now and evermore.
Abdur Rahman
July 31, 2008 at 6:29 pm
Dear Abdur Rahman,
This is Syeda Neegar Banu from Dhaka, Bangladesh. I am so much inspired by visit ur website. I thought u may be help me.
In Dhaka I am working in a private TV stations and now I want to prepare myself to take higher study on film making in London.
About my education I need ur assistance. I thought ur suggestion help me a lot.
This is my personal ID address: snbanu03@yahoo.com
Would u give me ur email contact? I promise ur email ID willn’t misuse.
Salam
Neegar
August 1, 2008 at 11:04 am
Salaams Syeda Neegar Banu,
Welcome to my online home. Allah bless you always. I know next to nothing of film studies and so, my only advice would be to look at UK universities online.
I am sorry I can’t be of any further help.
Abdur Rahman
August 7, 2008 at 6:21 pm
aoa, nice to see this blog , it is a real appreciable thinking to start.
in this era , the islam is misused by the name of Jehad,while the relgion of islam is based on spirtual love and touheed.The touheed can not stand concrete until the cement of love of Muhammod (asws) is not used. unfortunatly all the new Ulma are defining the islam on the bases of fear of God but no one is describing with same extent the love of prophet Muhammod(mpuh)The muslims can not come out of this hotwater until they creat a love for Him in their heart.to whom Allah loves how we can ignore him and direct ourself towards the God?
August 8, 2008 at 11:10 am
Salaams Dr. Chaudhury
Welcome to my online home. Allah bless you always.
I am glad you have stopped by. Thank you for your thoughts. I agree with your thoughts. O God! Teach us to love you as we should
Abdur Rahman
August 23, 2008 at 1:56 pm
Referring to Dr. Chaudhary’s comment, “the islam is misused by the name of Jehad,” this has been a thought of mine for years. NPR did a wonderful commentary on the misused and misunderstood Quranic vocabulary and the North American notions regarding it.
On to my initial thought, I very much enjoyed the title of your posting and its content. It brought a smile to my face as well as tapped into my feeling about God.
Thanks for sharing,
Nadia
August 23, 2008 at 2:10 pm
Found the link and interesting quote:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=6392989
“The term ‘jihad’ usually means Jihad fi sabil Allah — “striving in the path of God,” says Streusand.” Simply by its very definition, striving in the path of God is a good thing to do.
August 26, 2008 at 10:06 am
Salaams Nadia
Welcome to my online home. I’m glad you stopped by. Allah bless you always.
You’re right, of course. Jihad is always fi sabil Allah or esle it’s not jihad!
Abdur Rahman
November 16, 2008 at 8:44 pm
Interesting
February 3, 2009 at 12:04 pm
dear Abdul Rehaman saab
salaam
this is my second post on your blog.great work..
i went thru some of the comments on your blog .specially on jihad fi sabil Allah it is very important that every body should distinguish between jihad and qital. Jihad is not necessary phisical fight in voling violence .It is Qital which means fighting involving violence.people give ref. to islam doctrine of jihad and mean Qital. just a comment
February 3, 2009 at 2:01 pm
Salam Brother Syed Farid Maharaj,
Thank you for your kind words. Allah bless you for them. Allah is the source of all that is good. Only the mistakes are mine.
Thank you for reminding us of the difference between Jihad and Qital. Indeed, the two things are distinct. Although jihad may sometimes be undertaken via armed struggle, jihad is not ‘holy war’ nor is it merely fighting. Indeed, the Prophet himself (alaihi al-salatu wa al-salam) referred to the stuggle against the soul and its wayward desires as ‘the greater jihad’.
February 20, 2009 at 8:41 pm
Salaam Abdur Rahman
I hope you are well.
I thought you might find this item I posted on the persecution of Sufis in Iran of interest.
http://myriadlives.wordpress.com/2009/02/20/sufi-holy-place-destroyed-in-esfahan/
Regards
Karl
February 23, 2009 at 10:57 am
Peace Karl,
My family and I are well, by God’s grace. Thank you for the links. I will check them out as soon as I can, insha Allah. I had heard of similar things before.
June 2, 2009 at 11:47 am
dear abdur rahaman
salaam may Allah bestow his mercy on you.
inshaAllah i will be travelling to Ajmer SHarif to attend the annual urs of Hazarat Khawaja Moinuddin Chishty by the end of June.the Qul is on 6th Rajab.as usual there will be mehfi-e-sama and opprotunity to interact will mashaikhs and pirs from all over the world.we all be gathered with humanity in large numbers to seek the baraka of the great shaikh.you are also invited to join in this spritual event. if there is anythink which i can be of help,pls ley me know.
with warm regards
June 2, 2009 at 10:35 pm
Salams Dear Brother Farid,
May Allah bless you always. May the urs of God’s beloved friends fill you with love of God. May baraka flow into your hands like rain.
Thank you for the invitation. Unfortunately, I won’t be able to attend this year. But, Allah knows, maybe next year? At any rate, insha Allah, one day I will be able to come, and we might travel there together.
Please make dua for me, my wife, children and family. In particular, please make dua for my mother who will be undergoing an operation next week. Also, please convey my salams and love to the mashaikhs, and to Hazrat-i-Pir Khwaja Moinuddin Chishty (quddus Allahi sirruhu)
Abdur Rahman